This is a chance for our readers to tell their own tales of hardships, triumph, and everything in between. With anonymous handles, we often take an intimate look into stories that define character and life purpose. This is your opportunity to share an experience that was important to you and the lessons you’ve learned along the way. Share your story

Comparing, Despairing & Happiness If comparing and despairing is costing your happiness, you're not alone. However, you're the only one that can change this negative cycle. And, FYI - trying to be more like your envied subject won't bring the contentment you seek. Does this sound familiar? Mrs. Stein is so put together. Her kids are well dressed, and she…

A Challenging Task Parenting is difficult under the best of circumstances, and few fall into the “Best of Circumstances” category. Knowing what to do and what not to do when parenting is incredibly difficult. Especially when there are tools missing from your skills toolbox as a result of abuse, trauma, or emotional neglect, it can be terrifying to consider shepherding…

Let's be honest over here: no one chooses to call themself a survivor. Yet in reality it’s probably the bravest position one can be in. Of course there are many ways one can become “a survivor.” Today I’m giving myself that title, so that I can start the long process of healing. I have survived and am now healing from a…

It all began seven years ago. I had recently moved from Brooklyn to Lakewood. I had lived in Brooklyn my entire life, all my family and friends lived there.We moved for my husband’s job and because housing in Brooklyn was unaffordable. We had come home earlier that evening from a cousin’s child’s birthday party and were getting ready for bed.…