I was in therapy doing good work with my therapist when at some point I realized I would think of whole conversations we would have, of bumping into her in the street, I’d dream of her. I felt like I had a crush of my therapist. (I am a happily married women in my 30s with healthy relationships) These feelings hampered our work together greatly. I…Read More
How do I know if I’m ready to date? I’m still seeing a therapist and taking meds. No one will ever be perfect. That’s just not the way G-D made us. I’m already 24 and my friends have 2 kids by now. I want to be responsible and G-D willing be the best spouse and mom I can be, and that’s why I’m doing all the therapeutic work that I am. (Of cou…Read More
WhatsAppers started the topic How to support a loved one with an eating disorder? in the forum Something else? Post here!
I am trying to be more understanding w a close relative that has an eating disorder… it’s really tough and I get upset at her for abusing her body and causing herself and everyone around her so much pain… how can I be supportive when I’m so angry inside??
WhatsAppers started the topic How to have a relationship with both parents when they are divorced? in the forum Relationships
I have a question. My relationship isn’t great with my family because I’m the only one who speaks to my father since my parents divorced, and I feel family is hurt by that. I feel I’m betraying my mother by speaking to my father, and maybe my relationship would be better with my siblings as well had I not spoken to him. I understand their issues…Read More
Hey I have a question wonder if u can help.
I had a deeply traumatic childhood with lots of abuse. Followed by a horrible divorce. I am in therapy for a while and really working on my healing. I made loads of progress and I’m not the same person I was before. I still feel I have lots of trauma stored in my body. Is there a way besides therapy to r…Read More
I have a question that perhaps you can post with all the other questions pple ask you.
I’m not sure if I’m experiencing depression, but for the past several years I feel I have been living a robotic lifestyle (wake up, go to work, come home, cook, take care of kids, sleep – REPEAT! I’ve been using YouTube as an escape and a breather for myself.…Read More
Hi, I have a question. My older sisters (3 of them to be exact) don’t talk to me, my parents and my other siblings they basically cut us all out of there entire life for no reason.. (at least non that I know of). I haven’t seen my nieces and nephews for years and my sisters and bro in laws.. I kind of accepted it however I was wondering if any…Read More
WhatsAppers started the topic How to deal with fear of something terrible happening? in the forum Trauma
Hey I love this status. Can I ask a question? I grew up with dysfunctional emotional parents and went through a hard childhood. I went to therapy as a teenager which helped me tremendously. Now I’m bh married with 2 adorable children. But I keep imagining something horrible happening to my kids/ family bec it feels like life is just too good and…Read More
How to tide over until my next therapy session when I have so much going on in my mind that I need to share and address. How to avoid overthinking it all and be able to focus on my daily schedule.
I have a question. Is it normal not to go to any therapist even you feel you may need it? My point is that in these days it’s totally normal to go to a therapist, while 10-20 years ago was something absurd and abnormal. Imagine 100-200-300 years ago. Also, when I struggle with different things (and I’m struggling a lot) I try to cry to my fat…Read More
WhatsAppers started the topic What to do if my therapist repeats herself too much? in the forum Something else? Post here!
I feel like it’s a silly question but to me it’s big. My therapist charges an arm and a leg (pretty much my entire paycheck) but when I’m there she many times repeats herself many times over even after I get the message. I feel like she doesn’t respect my money! Any advice?
I have a very unhealthy love/hate relationship with my mother. I also have a need to not just be right, but to make sure the other person admits it. I have realized this is a problem and I am trying to work on it. It has been going well with all other people, but when it comes to my mother, I have this inexplicable need to argue with her and prove…Read More
WhatsAppers started the topic I'm at risk for an eating disorder but don't want to change. Any advice? in the forum Something else? Post here!
Im not sure if I’m anorexic, i was told im at risk of it and its still early enough to get out of it
Im seeing a nutritionist but i don’t feel like changing since im happy with the way i am and i think i overeat becuase im fatter than most other people
On the other hand im being told that im ruining my body…
I feel really alone and i love the…Read More
WhatsAppers started the topic How to deal with a spouse who is an overeater and is depressed? in the forum Depression
I know this will be sensitive for many as it is about weight loss – but it’s the perspective of being married to an overeater. He overeats, noshes mindlessly, is depressed, and does no exercise, and his blood pressure is getting high. He went on a short diet as per doc and his mom and was losing nicely and eating healthy and less. I bent over…Read More
WhatsAppers started the topic How to deal with my feelings of anger towards my therapist? in the forum Dealing with Emotions
Does anyone have any ideas of how to get over with the aftereffects of being angry and upset at my therapist? I don’t know how to manage waiting so long until I speak with my therapist.
Hi! I have a Question. I’m struggling a lot with compare and despair. I look at other people who are skinnier, cooler, seem to be better spouses, richer, better avodas Hashem, etc… and I wish I can be like them/copy them/be friends with them.. I know everyone has their own journey (and sometimes thinking that helps) but it’s so hard when eve…Read More
Hi I have a question if ppl can pls give advice I would REALLY appreciate it.
So I’m dealing with anxiety and depression, and recently I’ve been cutting. So I’ve spoken to a few people and I decided that if I have had the urge then I would go talk to someone I’m close with, etc. The only issue with that is when it’s normally time for sleeping…Read More
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