Thank you,

Just to clarify I am in therapy , and my spouse has been ,and  is now trying to find new one for himself .

Wow there does seem to be  lot of pain there. I’m sorry for what your going through ,and hope you will be able to figure things out soon.

Thank You very much

I want to thank you for these referrals, and I’m sorry I did not mention before clearly, but I’m  looking for;

A Child Therapist in the Monsey/Monroe area

Preferably someone that excepts insurance

The child is 4 years

Someone that could help guide me ,and my husband on how to be more assertive with him,( he has been hitting us lately. My…Read More

Ok  , thank you .

Will check it out.

For guidance, should I give  more details?

Hi, can anyone refer a child psychologist, that works with the parents?

I have a dream.I wish to arrange sort of a weekly night-out for girls that are currently in therapy due to dysfunction,and/or abuse in there parents home. My intention is not to do any form of therapy ,just to provide a safe and comfortable place to laugh, and feel the joy of life.But I don’t know how to go about it. Or maybe I’m just scared, feel…Read More

Thank you so much , I really enjoyed following along! It was very informative,and I really gained some insight!

Thanks again @avocado your poems always inspire, and I agree with @zissy how brave you already are.

I know its sooo scary to allow ourselves to face those feelings, places we worked so hard, and so many years to hide, deny that they even exist. I struggle with it too, but I’m starting to realize that not going there, and finally facing it, keeps…Read More

Hi, I would love to hear if anyone knows about/worked with  a therapist David Neyer, my husband got referred to him ,and would like to know more abt him. Thanks

Thank you all for all the  insight , and understanding, it gave me a lot to think about.

@chavy Thanks

I get what your saying abt the power we have to choose what we want to feel,but honestly I don’t know myself what/or if i would want to feel positive emotions toward them, because of my strong urge to not except any of there behavior ,or them as long as they behave certain ways will sort of feel threatened, makes sense?

Thank you all,

A few of you mention the idea that having any feeling(even negative ones) shows that I do have some feelings towards them.  That is actually what my therapist tried explaining too,and I sure do have feelings ,when I think of them ,but of hate,anger, disappointment,etc how do such feelings translate to being caring?or showing…Read More

Thank You I really appreciate your post, especially this “I think your dynamic between you and your father and grandmother has nothing to do with if you’re a caring person overall, ” it definitely makes it easier for me to understand myself.

I like what your saying, sounds helpful.

Thanks I so appreciate your post.

Wow @avacado  you have great talent! your poems always feel so full of real emotions! They always inspire me, thanks.

I find myself going in cycles of trying to step back and allowing reality to take place, but then something very upsetting , or emotionally charging happens, and I i’m back trying to control outcomes, trying to pretend being very…Read More